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I recommend these programs. They work for your mind and your body.
Qi Gong
Sedona Method

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"Do You Let People Give?"
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1. *** Technique Of The Week ***

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Do You Let People Give?
~ By Jan Tincher

Do you let people give? For instance, do you share
responsibilities? If you do something for someone, do you
let them repay you by doing it, or something else, for you?

Or are you the type that when you go out for lunch with a
certain person who's down on his or her luck, you always
buy? And if they want to reciprocate in any way, you don't
let them?

If you don't let someone reciprocate, which means give back,
then, possibly, you are doing them a disservice. Have you
thought about it that way?

Or do you think, *They can't afford to do anything. I'll treat
until they can.*?

No matter how down and out a person is, they'll never get up
and over the hump if people keep giving them *the fish* instead
of allowing them to *fish*, in whatever way they can.

If you teach someone something, or let them learn something,
you are helping them far more than if you were to continually
do something for them without them learning anything in the
process.

Well, actually, I guess you are teaching them something in the
process. You are teaching them to be dependent on you and/or
others. Let them learn how to *fish*, or they will become a victim
of misplaced generosity. The knowledge they will gain is much
more important to them than the finished product. And, in the
process, they are getting their self-worth back.

They need to know that things will get better, AND they need
to know that THEY can be in control.

Can a dependency pattern be stopped? Definitely. What happens
when a dependency pattern is stopped? The person who was
dependent, as well as the person who was depended upon, will
now feel more balanced.

Now, if you are the person who is down and out right now,
never think there is nothing you can do for someone. There is
always something, some way, to reciprocate.

It is important for you to give. KNOW THIS. If you don't have
a moment of giving, you will only be thinking that you need
help, and chances are that you'll always need help. The first step
out of the pit of despair is to give, and to give with feeling.

Now, if you are the person who is always giving, let it be known
that you won't be giving at this particular time. Or that you are
open to change.

Do whatever you need to do to break the chain. And I don't
mean this in a selfish way.

Maybe you can just make it a point that when the person says he
or she would like to reciprocate, you will now say something like,
*If you would like to, that will be fine.* If you look closely, you
will notice that you have just given them Power. And now that the
power has shifted, they stand a little taller. And isn't that a reward
in and of itself? Now, you both feel good.

If your situation is more complicated, and the person doesn't want
to give anything -- maybe because they can't think of something
they CAN give -- suggest something. Remember, this is for the
good of all.

If a person is not paying you something they owe, and you are
writing this off -- you are doing more harm than good -- to both
of you. Maybe you can suggest a payment plan to another person,
one who will hold the person who owes accountable. Or, if the
other person doesn't want to pay you because, after all, you do
have money, give him or her an alternative. Maybe the money can
go to a favorite project.

It's OK to give, to treat, to buy things for others, to be responsible
for the evening when no one else will take responsibility, BUT it's
not OK if it becomes a habit. Give and take is a wonderful thing.
Do it often.

Good luck!

Thanks for reading.

Jan

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