If
It Ain't Coming, It Ain't Been Sent
~ By Jan Tincher
Copyright © Jan Tincher - All Rights reserved
http://www.tameyourbrain.com
If
it ain't coming, it ain't been sent is one of the seven
laws of the universe. Well, it's one of the seven
laws of the universe, *paraphrased*.
Un-paraphrased,
it's the Law of Cause and Effect. Loosely put, it
means what goes around, comes around, or . . . If it ain't
coming *back to you,* it hasn't been sent. *You haven't
sent it.*
You
need to send something out before it can come back.
So I guess the question
is . . .
What
have you sent out lately?
Hard
work? Good thoughts? Or not hard work?
Not so good thoughts?
If
you send BAD out, guess what? You get BAD back, and
you sometimes get it back so fast you aren't able to move
aside to avoid it. Wham-o, that's just how fast. In
other words, if you kick someone who's down, YOU'D BETTER
HIDE!
NOTE: Unfortunately, hiding never works. Why?
Because this Law of Cause and Effect is a YOU-seeking missile!
If
you send GOOD out, guess what? You get GOOD back.
But there's a twist. I have found, for some reason, that
GOOD takes a little longer to come back. Which is
OK. I like to savor. Of course, I'm not above
reminding the universe every once in a while that *I've
been good.*
What
are you sending out?
To
get a little technical, the Law of Cause and Effect is one
of the most important parts of a person's life. Socially,
spiritually, emotionally, physically, AND financially.
And here's why. Everything that happens to you, happens
for a reason. Knowing this, here's what you must do.
You must concentrate on the CAUSE, and the EFFECT will automatically
take care of itself.
Let's
take this one *cause* at a time.
Socially,
do you sit home alone, or do you gladly accept company and
all that comes with it? What are you sending out?
Spiritually,
are you praying, then taking everything back, because you
just know God isn't going to grant you what you want?
Or are you hesitant to accept anything and everything the
universe has in store for you? What are you sending
out?
Emotionally,
are you not feeling loved, therefore, you're not sending
out love? Where do you expect love to come from?
I mean, really, if we can't love ourselves, how can we possibly
expect others to?
Here's
what you must do. Every morning, just after you wake
up, spend fifteen minutes saying things that make you feel
good. I personally like "I am loved, I love,
I am loving. I love myself and all creation."
But you know what. It took awhile to get there.
It
was real hard to say any of the above, when I was feeling
totally unloved. But you know what? I worked
at it until it felt so good, I couldn't imagine not being
able to say it. Of course, I had to rephrase it just
a tad until it felt right tome. I started out with, "I'm
beginning to feel loved." And then I imagined
what *beginning to feel love* felt like. Man, did
that feel GOOD! What are you sending out?
Physically,
what are you sending out? "I feel terrible."
"I feel so down." "I feel like a freak."
OK, OK, OK. We won't even go into that last one right
now. But here's what you can do to change that.
Change the tense from present to past. "I felt so terrible."
"I felt so down." "I felt like a freak."
See, that's how you FELT. Now, you can move on.
You
might have felt so terrible, but it's time to move on.
You might have felt so down, but, again, it's time to move
on. You might have felt like a freak, but that's not
who you are. IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON. What are
you sending out? STOP IT. Just plain stop it,
so it can't come back. *That's your mission, should
you choose to accept it.*
Financially,
what is the metaphor you are *sending out* for your life?
"I'm broke." "I'll never have a new
car." "I can't get a decent job."
What are you sending out? Your thoughts are affecting
you physically, so now you've got to go through everything
above AGAIN. What are you sending out?
OK,
now, let's take control of our lives. Rather than
be affected negatively by this very powerful Law of Cause
and Effect, we should use it positively by always remembering
what goes around, comes around.
There
is no vindictiveness, it's a fact, what goes around, comes
around.
YOU
can stop it NOW.
YOU
CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE.
